The Compass™
Planners, workbooks, and guided systems for the practical part of rebuilding.
Something to steer by when the map you had is no longer the map you need. Real spreadsheets, real templates, built for women navigating divorce, custody, midlife pivots, and the rest of it — not another pretty PDF you have to fill in by hand.
Not printables. Not theory. Built for one season at a time.
Every Compass piece is made to be used rather than admired, and every one is built for a specific chapter of transition. Paper Trail isn't a general "life organizer" — it's a custody tracker for women documenting a high-conflict year. The Groundwork isn't a general money course — it's the nine things that change when your household does. Specific is more useful than broad.
Built to be used.
Spreadsheets with live formulas that recalculate as you log. Lessons that end with a worksheet and somewhere to write the answer. Nothing here is a pretty PDF you print and fill in by hand.
Chapter-specific.
Each piece is built for a specific Circle chapter. Paper Trail is for Chapter 01, The Battlefield — the high-conflict custody year. The Financial Compass and The Groundwork fit every chapter, because the money question shows up in all of them. More, one chapter at a time, is on the way.
Yours to keep.
One-time payment, no subscription, lifetime updates. The files live on your devices and your answers stay in your browser — your data never touches our servers. Your paper trail belongs to you.
Before the planners, the money question.
Every chapter of a transition eventually lands on the same question: where do I actually stand? The Financial Compass answers it — a 90-second quiz that names the money story you've been carrying, and a workbook that turns it into one honest next step.
- The money story quiz — four profiles, ninety seconds, no wrong answers
- An 8-page workbook — fillable on your device or printed by hand
- One goal, three moves — small enough to actually finish this week
No card, no catch. It fits every chapter, because the money question shows up in all of them.
One planner live. And everything else, free to read.
The Compass grows chapter-first — one thing built properly at a time, rather than a shelf of half-finished ones. Paper Trail is live for the women in Chapter 01, where real documentation is the difference between a hearing that goes your way and one that doesn't. The Library is the money side — free, and open to anyone who needs it today.
Paper Trail Co-Parenting Planner.
A real interactive spreadsheet — 12 tabs, a live court-ready summary, 318 built-in formulas, 17+ calm-script templates — with an optional Pro upgrade that syncs your parenting schedule to Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, or iPhone. Built for high-conflict custody, divorce, and co-parenting documentation.
The Library.
Plain answers to the money questions a separation or a midlife pivot creates — whose debt is actually whose, what a decree does and doesn't change, what one income really covers, why you can't open the bank app, and the tax questions nobody warns you about. Free, no sign-up, no upsell in the middle.
These are the nine modules of The Groundwork — a self-paced course opening later this year, once the video is recorded.
You get the planner.
The community's already yours.
Her Becoming Circle — our free, moderated community of women rebuilding — is open to everyone, from the moment you want it. Five chapters, five seasons, one house. And every purchase counts toward Membership, the deeper layer you grow into. Come as you are.
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